Wednesday, May 29, 2019


Post # 106 – Memorial Day

Dear Family and Friends

I have been thinking about Memorial Day and what it means to me. My father died in while in the service of our country. My older brother also served in the military and his life was shortened as well. Growing up I didn’t learn much about this special day. I know that the actual day was a couple days ago, but there are some very important ways that we can remember and honor our deceased soldiers as well as our other deceased family members.


Have you began doing your genealogy for your family? This is a very good place to begin – with yourself and work your way backwards through each generation searching out your deceased family members. Another way is if you were to do Indexing work. If you have never done indexing work, you really should give it a try. You can help so many people when you are doing this work – it can almost become addictive. You can learn more about indexing here: https://www.familysearch.org/indexing/ 


I found this article that I wanted to share with you about Memorial Day I hope you enjoy it with me:  

Memorial Day Message

May 25, 2015

In the United States, Memorial Day has been established as a federal holiday to remember those who died while serving in the armed forces. Other countries also have established days of remembrance for their fallen service members—valiant men and women who gave what Abraham Lincoln called “the last full measure of devotion” to a cause greater than self. It is only fitting that we pause to remember them and the sacrifices they made so we can enjoy the blessings of “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”
If you’ve ever visited a veteran’s cemetery, like those at Arlington or Normandy—or anyplace where veterans have been laid to rest—you know that there’s a sacred feeling there. You can’t help but feel a deep respect and reverence for those who made the ultimate sacrifice. Behind each grave marker are unfulfilled hopes and dreams of families saddened by the loss of a loved one.


General Douglas MacArthur observed that “the soldier above all others prays for peace, for it is the soldier who must suffer and bear the deepest wounds and scars of war.” For every grave marker at a cemetery there are many other veterans who survived war but carry its scars. Some have endured terrible life-changing physical injuries. Others are broken emotionally because of what they experienced. Still others suffer from post-traumatic stress or traumatic brain injury. Most experience some form of moral injury that causes them to question whether the Atonement of Christ is still available to them.


I believe that my brother suffers in this way, but I don’t think he will ever believe that he is good enough to even repent


The truth is, Christ descended below all things, suffering every kind of affliction and temptation so that He would know “how to succor his people according to their infirmities” (see Alma 7:11–12). Therefore, no one can say to the Lord, “But you don’t know how I feel” or “You do not know what I have endured.” He indeed knows, and we all have access to His Atonement and His healing influence in our lives. Through the Atonement, the burdens we carry can be lifted.

My granddaughter suffers from depression and anxiety and she is often telling me that I don’t understand. I try to explain to her that the Lord will help her if she will let Him.

Even after his conversion, Alma still had memory of his sins, but he was no longer harrowed up by those memories because He had turned to Christ. Because of this redeeming experience, Alma explained that he “labored without ceasing, that [he] might bring souls unto repentance; that [he] might bring them to taste of the exceeding joy of which [he] did taste; that they might also be born of God, and be filled with the Holy Ghost” (see Alma 36:17–24).




All who answer the call of their country are affected in some way by their combat experience. As General William Tecumseh Sherman said, “War is hell.” Yes, while virtues such as courage, bravery, sacrifice, and love unfeigned are all seen on the battlefield, there is nothing glamorous about war as it is often portrayed on the movie screen. Many who return often relive their war experiences in sleepless nights, recurring dreams, or uncontrollable responses to large crowds, loud noises, and certain smells. They continue to be harrowed up by their memories because they do not know where to turn for peace and forgiveness.


Following the invasion of Iraq, the wife of a marine who was involved in the operation wrote a letter to Elder Robert D. Hales explaining that her husband and others in his unit were struggling with what they saw and did during the war. She asked if there was anything the Church could do to help them put their war experiences in a gospel perspective. In response to her request, a fireside was held for the marines and their families. The talks given at the fireside became the genesis for the DVD Let Not Your Heart Be Troubled. Inspiring talks by President Boyd K. Packer, Elder Robert C. Oaks, Elder Lance B. Wickman, and President Gordon B. Hinckley provided gospel insights, compassion, and understanding for our combat veterans. The title was selected from John 14:27: “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”

All veterans seek peace—peace of mind, peace of conscience, peace of understanding, and the peace that comes from Him who suffered for all of us and, through His grace, enables us to return to God whole and complete. For those who still yearn for His promised peace, may I offer this counsel: Never stop trying, never give up, and never lose your faith, for the Son of God knows you and will heal your heart and encircle you in the arms of His love (see 2 Nephi 1:15).
Watch the latest 'His Grace' episode to see the story of two military brothers and their journey.
Here are a few quotes from articles about Memorial Day observances and the work we can do. If you need help with your family history, they have put together tutorials with step by step instructions to help you out. You can find the help you need here: https://www.familysearch.org/en/



22 May 2014 - Salt Lake City 
News Story
Online Collections of Civil War Records Updated for Memorial Day
FamilySearch adds new military records to assist in genealogy work

If you have an ancestor who served in the American Civil War, it may now be easier to find information about that relative online. In conjunction with Memorial Day, FamilySearch.org is announcing significant updates to its Civil War historic records collections available online.
“Each soldier family has a story, and these stories are handed down from generation to generation,” said Ken Nelson, collection manager for FamilySearch, a nonprofit volunteer-driven group sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. “When you want to get the particulars of what that service was, you start going to these government records that document this service.”
Nelson said the census data gives people a “glimpse of what the towns looked like prior to the war.” He explained the state information is useful because “a majority of the men were in volunteer regiments raised out of counties and towns. These regiments represented their homes.”



Women also contributed to the war effort by serving as nurses and working in soldier aid societies that sent supplies to the front. Nelson said many of their stories are preserved in letters and diaries. 

Memorial Day, originally called Decoration Day, is an outgrowth of the Civil War. Union veterans of the Civil War formed the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR) in 1866, which was instrumental in organizing an annual event honoring the war dead from the Northern states by placing flowers on their graves. The first official observance of Decoration Day was held on 30 May 1868 at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, which is commemorating its 150th anniversary. 

Southern states didn’t honor Decoration Day until the end of the First World War in 1918, when the holiday began honoring the American dead from all wars. Decoration Day was officially established as Memorial Day, the last Monday in May, when President Lyndon B. Johnson signed he law in 1971.



“If you think about it, veterans themselves perpeuated Memorial Day,” said Nelson. “A lot came out of the Civil War. We saw the beginnings of national cemeteries.”



For Memorial Day, See Images of Ancestors’ Headstones on FamilySearch.org
With the approach of Memorial Day on May 29, many people are planning to connect with their ancestors by visiting their graves.
A joint effort between FamilySearch and Billion Graves makes it easy to either locate and visit a grave or view ancestors’ headstones from home.



22 May 2015 | POSTED BY Tracie Cayford Cudworth
War of 1812, End of Civil War 150th Anniversary Commemorated 
FamilySearch adds new information to locate ancestors this Memorial Day weekend   
Many families in the United States will travel to cemeteries across the country this Memorial Day weekend to remember their ancestors, including war veterans and other loved ones. For many people, it’s a tradition to decorate the graves of loved ones with flowers and hold family gatherings. FamilySearch is making it easier to help descendants of military veterans find the records of their ancestors at no cost, including those who fought in the Civil War and the War of 1812.

FamilySearch patrons can review information about their ancestors who served in the War of 1812, including pension records that offer details about the individual who served, his or her spouse and other historical information. Supporting documents may include pages torn out of the family Bible that were presented to the government as a witness of military service.
You can read the rest of this article here:


Viewpoint: Family History Is a Treasure Trove

Contributed By the Church News
·         4 JUNE 2017
Between the resources at FamilySearch.org and a nearby ancestral cemetery, this young family had a memorable family home evening.

ARTICLE HIGHLIGHTS

·         Involving children in family history helps them learn from their predecessors.
·         FamilySearch.org is a great resource for getting families into their own history.
“Behold, I will reveal unto you the Priesthood, by the hand of Elijah the prophet, before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord. And he shall plant in the hearts of the children the promises made to the fathers, and the hearts of the children shall turn to their fathers.” —Doctrine and Covenants 2:1–2

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Last Sunday, the day before Memorial Day in the United States, a man noticed a Facebook posting from his sister-in-law: a picture of herself decorating the graves of her parents earlier that day.
“Is this cemetery in Salt Lake?” he asked in a comment post.
“Yes, Wasatch Gardens,” she replied. “We also went to Crescent.”
Ah yes, the man reflected to himself, Crescent Cemetery, just down the street from his home, the burial place of his own beloved parents.

“I need to take my family to Crescent tomorrow,” he replied to his sister-in-law. “It has three generations of my folks. Our kids never knew their grandparents on my side, and I’m afraid they are growing up without a consciousness of them.”
“Between the Browns and the Lloyds, there is a lot of family history at Crescent Cemetery,” remarked the sister-in-law.
“It’s a treasure trove for sure!” the man replied.
By the next evening—Monday and Memorial Day—the man had hatched plans for a family home evening lesson.
Well, my Dear Family and Friends we have come to the end of today’s post. I hope that each of you have learned a little bit more about Memorial Day. I know that I have, I found these articles very enlightening and eye-opening. I will view Memorial Day differently from this time forward. Of course, if you already have known about this special holiday, maybe this was a good refresher for you😊


I want to take this opportunity to say thank you to all of those of you who, have served in the military. your service to this your country is greatly appreciated. so many have given their lives in the service of their country. we are so glad that you have been willing to serve in the protection of all who live in this country. Your courageous service has blessed so many lives. If you are still in the service of our country, please stay close to the Lord, He will guide and protect each of you.


I have been thinking a lot about Memorial Day I believe that the bravest man who ever lived upon this earth and freely gave His life in a battle, not for our country, but for every person who has ever or who will ever be born into this earth; He died for our very souls! You ask, who could have the ability to do this grand thing?? it was our own savior, yours and mine, even Jesus Christ who has born the sins of us all so that we might have eternal life. I believe that we should honor Him as well! On this special day and every day of the year. 

 I believe that is important for us to keep learning new things and for me it is really very good to have refresher courses on what I have already learned. There is always something changing so it isn’t very often that you can not find something new to learn on any given subject, right??? As always, keep studying the New Testament with me, remember who you are, keep the commandments, and until my next post, make it a great week😊



Tuesday, May 28, 2019


Post # 105 -- Exercising Our Spiritual Muscles

Dear Family and Friends

A while back I was asked to hem a pair of pants. Without thinking I said sure, I’d be happy to do it! I had hemmed his pants before, and it wasn’t a problem. I had him stand on a chair and marked them off. It was a bit more difficult than it had been before when I hemmed his pants, but I got it done. It was when I got home and tried to actually hem his pants that I realized that I was having a whole lot of problems. With my hand and arm wrapped it was very difficult for me to get the needle through the pants and back in again.

I finally got creative and used a book and a piece of plastic – the book for stability and the plastic to help me to get the needle through the pants. Thinking back on it, I bet I was a sight to see as I struggled to keep a good hold on those pants while I was trying to get them hemmed. I needed to be careful so that I did not end up with cut fingers. With the neuropathy in my fingers it is easy to hurt yourself without realizing it until you see the blood. I was quite a process but finally I did get them hemmed and back to him on time😊



I am realizing there are so many simple things that we take for granted as long as we are able to do them without too much effort. It is when we must struggle to do things that we realize just how much we had taken it for granted that we would always be able to do the thing that we had done like second nature and now we are having to think it through in order to get it done. Does any of this make even a little bit of sense?  It id like loosing the range of motion in my arm and shoulder during the time I was wearing my sleeve and glove when it had lost its needed compression

Now I must do certain exercises I order to increase my range of motion in that arm and shoulder. Retraining your body once it has lost its range of motion is a painful and time-consuming exercise, but it is also very necessary if I want to continue to be able to use it in any functional way. I am still going to therapy for my lymphedema three times a week. Lifting weights – even small weights is very difficult, especially on Mondays after the weekend. By the time I get to the second set my arm and shoulder struggle to function at all. then when I go back on Wednesday it is a little bit easier and by Friday it is much easier because I have been exercising those muscles.


It is the same with our spiritual muscles – the must be exercised in order for them to become strong as well. We must continually exercise our physical muscles in order for our physical muscles to become stronger and keep our range of motion fluid. We must also exercise our spiritual muscles in order for us to stay spiritually strong. In this world of ever conflicting views and morals we must stay ever strong spiritually. For us to do this we must exercise our spiritual muscles. And how do we do this you ask? Elder Juan Pablo Villar of the Seventy has some ideas for us in his talk titled: “Exercising Our Spiritual Muscles” shall we read through it together? Here we go😊
Just as reading and learning about muscles is not enough to build muscle, reading and learning about faith without adding action is insufficient to build faith.
I am grateful for the blessing of having a physical body, which is an amazing gift from our Heavenly Father. Our bodies have over 600 muscles. Many muscles require exercise in order to be in condition to perform our daily activities. We could expend much mental effort reading and learning about our muscles, but if we think this will make them stronger, we will be very disappointed. Our muscles grow only when we use them.

The key here is the action necessary for them to grow. Even when you plant a seed in your garden, you must do something or it most likely will not grow😊


I have come to realize that spiritual gifts behave in the same way. They also need to be exercised to grow. The spiritual gift of faith, for example, is not just a feeling or a mood; it is a principle of action that frequently appears in the scriptures linked to the verb exercise. Just as reading and learning about muscles is not enough to build muscle, reading and learning about faith without adding action is insufficient to build faith.

the spiritual gift of faith is a principle of action, for our faith to grow we must exercise it. We must use it, we must trust our Heavenly Father by having faith in Him. We tale a step out into the darkness and trust that He will help us find the light beyond that darkness😊

When I was 16 years old, my oldest brother, Ivan, who was 22 at that time, came home one day and shared some news with the family. He had decided to get baptized in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Our parents looked at him somewhat skeptically, and I remember not completely understanding what was going on. A year or so later, he gave us more surprising news: he had decided to serve as a missionary of the Church, which meant that we were not going to see him for two years. My parents were not thrilled with this news; however, I saw in him a clear determination that increased my admiration for him and the decision he had made.

Months later, while Ivan was serving his mission, I had the opportunity to plan a vacation with some schoolmates. We wanted to celebrate the end of our high school years and spend a few days at the beach.



I wrote a letter to my missionary brother, mentioning my summer vacation plans. He wrote back that the town he was serving in was on the way to my destination. I decided it would be a good idea to stop by and visit him. It was not until later that I learned that missionaries are not supposed to be visited by family.

I made all the arrangements. I remember sitting on the bus thinking of all the fun Ivan and I would have together on this beautiful sunny day. We would have breakfast, chat, play in the sand, sunbathe—what a great time we were going to have!

As the bus arrived at the terminal, I saw Ivan standing next to another young man, both in white shirts and ties. I got off the bus, we hugged each other, and he introduced his companion. Without wasting another minute, I told my brother my plans for the day, but little did I know what Ivan had scheduled. He looked at me, smiled, and said, 

“Sure! However, we need to do some errands first. Would you come with us?” I agreed, thinking that we would have enough time to enjoy the beach afterward.
That day, for more than 10 hours, I walked through the streets of that town with my brother and his companion. I smiled at people all day. I greeted people I had never seen in my life. We talked to everyone, knocked on the doors of strangers, and visited people my brother and his companion were teaching.




During one such visit, my brother and his companion were teaching about Jesus Christ and the plan of salvation. Suddenly, Ivan paused and looked at me. To my surprise, he politely asked me to share my opinion about what was being taught. The room fell silent, and all eyes were on me. With some difficulty, I finally found the words and shared my feelings about the Savior. I did not know if what I shared was right or wrong. My brother never corrected me; to the contrary, he thanked me for sharing my thoughts and feelings.

During those hours together, my brother and his companion did not spend a single minute teaching a lesson exclusively to me, yet I gained more knowledge than in all my previous conversations with him. I witnessed how countenances were changed as people received spiritual light in their lives. I saw how some of them found hope in the messages, and I learned how to serve others and forget about myself and my own desires. I was doing what the Savior taught: “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself.”

Looking back, I realize that my faith grew that day because my brother gave me the opportunity to put it in action. I exercised it as we read from the scriptures, looked for people to teach, bore testimony, served others, and so on. We never got around to sunbathing that day, but my heart was bathed in light from heaven. I did not see even one small grain of sand at the beach, but I felt my faith grow like a small grain of mustard seed. I did not spend the sunny day as a tourist, but I gained wonderful experiences, and without realizing it, I was a missionary—without even being a member of the Church!


Opportunities to Strengthen Spiritual Muscles
Thanks to the Restoration of the gospel, we can come to understand how our Heavenly Father helps us develop spiritual gifts. It is more likely that He will give us opportunities to develop those gifts rather than just granting them to us without spiritual and physical effort. If we are in tune with His Spirit, we will learn to identify those opportunities and then act upon them.

If we seek more patience, we may find ourselves needing to practice it while waiting for a response. If we want to have more love for our neighbor, we can foster it by sitting next to a new face at church. With faith it is similar: when doubts come to our minds, trusting in the Lord’s promises will be required to move forward. In this way, we are exercising spiritual muscles and developing them into sources of strength in our lives.

It will probably not be easy at the beginning, and it might even become a big challenge. The words of the Lord, through the prophet Moroni, apply to us today: “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have [or exercise] faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.”




I am grateful for my brother Ivan, who not only shared the gospel with me but also indirectly invited me to live it and recognize my weaknesses. He helped me to accept the invitation of the Master: “Come, follow me”—to walk as the Savior walked, seek as the Savior sought, and love as the Savior loves us. Months later, after my missionary experience, I decided to get baptized and to serve my own mission.

Let’s accept the invitation of President Russell M. Nelson and intently come unto the Savior by identifying those muscles that need more spiritual activity and starting to exercise them. This is a long-distance race, a marathon, rather than a sprint, so do not forget those small but constant spiritual activities that will strengthen those important spiritual muscles. If we want to increase our faith, then let’s do things that require faith.

I bear my witness that we are children of a loving Heavenly Father. His Son, Jesus Christ, loves us. He came to this world to show us the way and then gave His life voluntarily to give us hope. The Savior invites us to follow His perfect example, to exercise our faith in Him and His Atonement, and to expand all the spiritual gifts that we have been blessed with. He is the way. This is my testimony in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.




Well, my Dear Family and Friends here we are again at the end of this post and this talk. I hope and pray that I have shared something with each of you that has helped to life your spirits and inspire you to have a desire to exercise your spiritual muscles beginning or continuing today😊 remember that we must do something --- we must take action in order for our spiritual muscles to become stronger. Our muscles grow only when we use them.  Reading and learning about faith without adding action is insufficient to build faith.

So, what are some ways that we can exercise our spiritual muscles? In his story he said that he learned how to serve others and to forget about himself and his own desires. He said that he was doing what the Savior had taught when He said: “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself.”
·         We must serve others. When we are serving others we are not focusing on our own problems and we are indeed following the example of our Savior.

In his story he said that his faith grew because his brother gave him the opportunity to put his faith into action. He said he exercised his faith as he:
·         Read from the scriptures
·         Looked for people to teach – share the gospel with others
·         Bore testimony – sharing your testimony with others
·         Served others


He said he felt his faith grow like a small grain of mustard seed, he had gained wonderful experiences, and without even realizing it, he was a missionary for that day – without even being a member of the Church! He said that because of, and thanks to the Restoration of the gospel, we can come to understand how our Heavenly Father helps us to develop our spiritual gifts. He said that Heavenly Father will give us opportunities to develop our spiritual gifts rather than just giving them to us without any spiritual or physical effort on our part.

·         If we are in tune with His Spirit, we will learn to identify those opportunities and then to act upon them when they come to us.
·         Trusting in the Lord’s promises will help us move forward in building our faith in Him. This is how we are exercising our spiritual muscles and developing them into sources of strength in our lives.

Remember as he said in this talk that  it may not be easy at first and it may even become a challenge, but the words of the Lord, through the prophet Moroni, apply to us today: “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have [or exercise] faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.”



He said in his story that his brother has not only shared the gospel with hism but that he had also invited him to live it and to recognize his weaknesses. He said that his brother helped him to accept the invitation of the Master: “Come, follow me”—to walk as the Savior walked, seek as the Savior sought, and love as the Savior loves us.

I am going to add my voice to Elder Juan Pablo Villar when he invited each one of us to exercise our spiritual muscles, to accept President Russel M. Nelson’s invitation when he said:  
Let’s accept the invitation of President Russell M. Nelson and intently come unto the Savior by identifying those muscles that need more spiritual activity and starting to exercise them. This is a long-distance race, a marathon, rather than a sprint, so do not forget those small but constant spiritual activities that will strengthen those important spiritual muscles. If we want to increase our faith, then let’s do things that require faith.

As always, remember who you are, keep studying the New Testament with me, keep praying, keep the commandments, make the changes in your lives that you need to --- if your need to, I am always making changes through repentance and then doing my best to get back on the path back to our Heavenly Father😊



We need to keep doing those things which help us to exercise our spiritual muscles because in this day of constant turmoil and change we must be spiritually strong. Let’s work on this together! And until my next post, please make it a great week😊

Saturday, May 25, 2019


Post # 104 – Your Priesthood Playbook

Dear Family and Friends

I have been thinking about the last Come, Follow Me lesson which taught us a little bit about the Priesthood. I thought it would be good to study and learn more about the Priesthood. I found a talk from our most recent General Conference. Even though this talk is directed to the Aaronic Priesthood holders. I think that there is a whole lot in this talk that can be applied to each one of us. I think we can each create ‘A Child of God’ Playbook, what do you think? Read through this talk and study the information carefully and see if you do not agree with me about this 
Playbook idea? Let’s each give it a try😊


Your Priesthood Playbook
By Elder Gary E. Stevenson                Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
Create your own playbook of how you will prove yourself as a disciple of Christ.
Last December, the First Presidency issued a statement announcing that 11-year-old boys would “begin attending … Aaronic Priesthood quorums … at the beginning of January in the year they turn 12.”1

As a result, during the first part of this year, there were quite a few startled 11-year-olds who had assumed they would be staying in Primary until their next birthday but were now passing the sacrament on Sundays as the Church’s newest ordained deacons.
I wonder who was surprised most by the change—the deacons or their parents. Of these almost 80,000 new deacons, many are with us tonight in this great Conference Center or 
are participating through technology. Welcome to the great brotherhood of the priesthood!

This change makes this meeting a historic one—it is likely the largest group of Aaronic Priesthood holders ever to attend a general priesthood session of general conference. In light of this special occasion, I direct my remarks especially to the young men of the Aaronic Priesthood.


Lessons Learned from Sports
As students, many of you are also developing your talents, interests, and hobbies through extracurricular activities at school or in private lessons, teams, and groups outside of school, including sports.

Having enjoyed sports throughout my life, I have always admired those who develop their athletic abilities to the point where they perform at high levels. For someone to be really good at anything, it takes, in addition to natural talent, great discipline, sacrifice, and countless hours of training and practice. Such athletes often hear the sometimes-harsh criticisms of coaches and willingly put aside what they want now for something greater in the future.

We know Church members and priesthood holders who have experienced success at the highest levels of professional athletics. There are many good examples, but I can list only a few here for the sake of time. You might recognize some of these athletes: in baseball, Jeremy Guthrie and Bryce Harper; in basketball, Jabari Parker and Jimmer Fredette; in soccer, Ricardo Rojas; in rugby league, William Hopoate; and in football, Taysom Hill and Daniel Sorensen. Each has made significant contributions to his sport.

While they are extremely successful in their sports, these athletes would be the first to admit they are not perfect athletes or perfect human beings. They work hard to be the best in their sport—and to live the gospel. They get up if they stumble, and they strive to endure to the end.


Study the Playbook
In team sports, plays are developed for certain game situations and compiled into a playbook. Athletes learn their specific assignment for each play. Successful players study the playbook so thoroughly that when a play is called, they know exactly, almost instinctively, where to go and what to do.

In a similar way, we holders of the priesthood also have a team (a quorum) and a playbook (the holy scriptures and words of modern prophets).
Do you strengthen your teammates?
How well have you studied your playbook?
Do you fully understand your assignment?



Confronting the Opposition
To take the analogy even further, great coaches know the strengths and weaknesses of their team as well as those of the opposition. They create a game plan that will give them the best chance for victory. What about you?

You know what temptations you are most vulnerable to, and you can predict how the adversary will try to derail and dishearten you. Have you created a personal game plan and playbook so that you will know how to respond when faced with opposition?

As you confront various moral temptations—whether in the company of others or when you are alone staring at a screen—you know your game plan. If a friend suggests you drink alcohol or try drugs, you know the play. You have practiced and know how to react in advance.



With a game plan, a playbook, and a firm commitment to execute your role, you will find that temptation has less control over you. You will have already made the decision of how you will react and what you will do. You won’t need to decide every time you are confronted with temptation.

One of the Twelve recently shared a story that illustrates this principle. As a priest in high school, he was hanging out with his friends. After they got something to eat, they were driving around when someone suggested they should go to a certain movie. The problem was he knew it was a movie he shouldn’t see. Although he immediately felt pressure and anxiety about the situation, he had planned for this. This was a page straight out of his priesthood playbook.

Taking a deep breath and summoning his courage, he announced, “I’m not interested in that movie. Just drop me off at my house,” which they did. A simple play leading to a victory! Years later, one of the friends with him that night described how this example proved to be a great strength for him to courageously face similar circumstances in his own life.



Pages from the Playbook
I asked a few of the Brethren to recommend plays you might include in your playbook. Here are some of their inspired suggestions:

Pray every day for greater light and a testimony of Jesus Christ.
Listen carefully to the teachings of your parents, your bishop, and your Young Men and quorum leaders.
Avoid pornography and immoral social media content.
Remember the promises you have made to God, and work to keep them.
Study scripture stories of great prophets, and emulate their good qualities.
Bless Heavenly Father’s children through service.
Seek good friends to help you become the person you want to be.
Become an expert in the FamilySearch app, and research your own family history.
Plan places of retreat where you can escape evil influences.
Love and help strengthen other members of your priesthood quorum.




I also communicated with the athletes whose pictures we viewed earlier. I found it interesting that they do not identify themselves only by what they do, as professional athletes, but also by who they are, as sons of a loving Heavenly Father and holders of the priesthood of God.

Now let’s listen to their thoughts:

Bryce Harper with his wifeJimmer Fredette as a deaconJimmer Fredette, here as a deacon learning to tie his tie, says: “I have learned to lean heavily on my knowledge and faith of the truthfulness of the gospel. This has guided me to be … a worthy priesthood holder and above all—a positive example.”

Bryce Harper, here as a husband, writes: “I thought fame, fortune, and an MVP award would make me happy. Something was missing. So, I … prepared and [entered] the temple. I am now on a path to [return] to my Heavenly Father and have an eternal family—which is the greatest joy in the world!”

Jeremy Guthrie as a mission presidentDaniel Sorensen as a missionaryDaniel Sorensen, here as a missionary, says: “A good playbook is a plan that uses the talents and strengths of each team member. … As I study and practice the teachings of the gospel of Jesus Christ, I can know how to use my strengths to serve in the priesthood.”

Jeremy Guthrie, here currently serving as mission president, shared: “As a 12-year-old deacon … [I felt] the Spirit testify to me [that] ‘this life is the time … to prepare to meet God.’2 The game plan is faith in God unto action [and] repentance through the Savior. … The playbook is found in the holy scriptures and through living prophets.”

Ricardo Rojas as branch presidentJabari Parker at priesthood ordinationJabari Parker, here at his ordination to the office of elder, says: “I couldn’t imagine the person that I would’ve turned out to be if I hadn’t made the decision to be baptized. … I’m so grateful that I have God in my life to guide me every day.”

Ricardo Rojas, here currently serving as branch president, said: “Through [God’s] priesthood [we] can help in His work. We are called to ‘be strong and of a good courage’3 in defending the truth.” This has helped him succeed both on the pitch and as a priesthood holder.

William Hopoate at baby blessingTaysom Hill as a missionaryTaysom Hill, here as a missionary, feels the gospel of Jesus Christ has served as a playbook for him in his life. He shared, “Believing in [God’s] plan and doing my best to fulfill my role in it has given me an overwhelming sense of peace and happiness in life, knowing God is pleased with my efforts.”

William Hopoate, here at his son’s baby blessing with four generations, says that the gospel helps him “identify the opposition’s strategies and provides the spiritual efficacy to withstand fiery darts and better serve others.”



What about you? Do you recognize your higher and holier identity as a son of God, a bearer of His holy priesthood? With this eternal identity in mind, create your game plan and priesthood playbook that will guide you during times of temptation and adversity. Consider both offensive and defensive strategies.


Offensive strategies help strengthen testimonies and increase resolve to stay on the strait and narrow path. Examples include regular prayer, scripture study, church and temple attendance, paying tithing, and following the counsel found in the For the Strength of Youth booklet.

Defensive strategies include planning ahead how you will face temptation. When tempted to compromise your personal standards, you know beforehand what you will do.
You need a playbook for that.

Don’t feel like praying today? Time to execute the play you already game-planned.
Do you feel your testimony waning? You have a play for that. You know what to do.


All-Stars in God’s Eyes
You are bearers of the holy priesthood of God. Your commitment to hold firmly the iron rod will transform you into the eternal being who you were created to become.
God knows and loves you. He will bless you and guide your steps.

You might be thinking that you are no one special, that you are not all-star material. But that is not true. Don’t you know that God has proclaimed, “The weak things of the world shall come forth and break down the mighty and strong ones”?4

So, do you feel weak? insignificant? Congratulations, you just made the lineup!
Do you feel unimportant? inferior? You may be just who God needs.\

What greater example is there than David stepping onto the battlefield against a frightening opponent, Goliath? Relying on the Lord, with a plan, David saved not only himself but the army of Israel!5 Know that the Lord will be with you as you summon your courage to be on His side. “If God be for us, who can be against us?”


He can open doors and help us find strengths and abilities we never knew we had.
Listen to your trusted coaches, such as your parents, bishop, and Young Men leaders. Learn the playbook. Read the scriptures. Study the words of modern-day prophets. Create your own game plan of how you will prove yourself as a disciple of Christ.

Know in advance the plays you will employ to strengthen your spirit and avoid the snares of the adversary.
Do this and God will surely utilize you.
Now, there may be some who detach themselves from the gospel and wander away. Others may sit in the stands and watch the game from afar. Some may choose to stay on the bench, even though the coach has tried to send them in. I invite you to rescue, support, and love them as a fellow team member!

Others want to get in the game—and do. What matters most is not how talented they are but their willingness to put themselves on the field. They do not wait to have their number called, because they know the scripture that says, “If ye have desires to serve God ye are called to the work."


You can put yourself in the lineup.
You do this as you study and execute your priesthood playbook.
Along the way you will most likely stumble and fall—perhaps many, many times. You are not perfect; falling is part of the qualifying process that allows you to refine your character and serve in a more compassionate way. The Savior and His infinite Atonement provide the way to overcome our mistakes through sincere repentance.

Great athletes spend hundreds of hours perfecting one small aspect of their game. As a priesthood holder, you need the same mind-set. If you fail, repent and learn from it. Practice so you will do better the next time. Ultimately, it’s up to you. Will you learn the playbook?

I urge you: Trust in the Lord. Put on the whole armor of God, and get in the game.
There aren’t many who play professional sports at the highest levels, but when it comes to discipleship, there are many who choose to follow Christ.


In fact, that is your mission in this life—to learn the ways of the Lord, enter the path of discipleship, and strive to live according to God’s plan. God will uphold and bless you as you turn to Him. You can do this because you are an all-star in His eyes.

I pray that you will make the commitment to live worthy of the holy priesthood that you bear and strive to execute your sacred role every day. I bless you with the ability and desire to do so. I add my testimony of the power of the priesthood that you hold, of living prophets, and of Jesus Christ and His role as our Savior and Redeemer. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.


Do you remember the first line of this talk? Let’s put it to good use as we design our own Child of God Playbook. It doesn’t matter who you are or where you live you are each a child of God and this is very important stuff here. It is so important to have a ‘game plan’ before you wander into those temptation paths. It doesn’t matter what your age is, or where you have been or what you have done in your lifetime so far.
You can repent and come unto Christ and begin again – cleaned from sin and forgiven. Then get your playbook in order so you have your game plan to live by, to protect you and give you comfort when those ‘iffy’ situations come up in your life. Once you have made your playbook, be sure to read it and study it, know the plays ahead of time. Be prepared – before you come to the temptations😊 okay, lets get back to the first line of this talk, do you remember?
Create your own playbook of how you will prove yourself as a disciple of Christ.


Let’s review some points from this talk that might help each one of us to create our own ‘Child of God’ Playbook.  The following are some quotes taken from this talk that might be of help to us as we begin to create our Playbook:
These are the “Lessons Learned from Sports”
“For someone to be really good at anything, it takes, in addition to natural talent, great discipline, sacrifice, and countless hours of training and practice. Such athletes often hear the sometimes-harsh criticisms of coaches and willingly put aside what they want now for something greater in the future.”
“While they are extremely successful in their sports, these athletes would be the first to admit they are not perfect athletes or perfect human beings. They work hard to be the best in their sport—and to live the gospel. They get up if they stumble, and they strive to endure to the end.”  This is exactly what each one of us must do as well😊 live the gospel, get up when we stumble and do our very best to endure to the end.




It is very important to “Study the Playbook”
In team sports, plays are developed for certain game situations and compiled into a playbook. Athletes learn their specific assignment for each play. Successful players study the playbook so thoroughly that when a play is called, they know exactly, almost instinctively, where to go and what to do”
In a similar way, we as a child of God have a team (our families and our friends, our fellow beings here on this earth as well as our eternal families) and a playbook (the holy scriptures and words of modern prophets).
Do you strengthen your teammates?
How well have you studied your playbook?
Do you fully understand your assignment?


Confronting the Opposition
“To take the analogy even further, great coaches know the strengths and weaknesses of their team as well as those of the opposition. They create a game plan that will give them the best chance for victory. What about you?
You know what temptations you are most vulnerable to, and you can predict how the adversary will try to derail and dishearten you. Have you created a personal game plan and playbook so that you will know how to respond when faced with opposition?” this is the very thing that we are working on here😊
As you confront various moral temptations—whether in the company of others or when you are alone staring at a screen—you know your game plan. If a friend suggests you drink alcohol or try drugs, you know the play. You have practiced and know how to react in advance.


You can adapt this to your own life situation, if you have up deinking alcohol – then this might be a great temptation for you; if you have given up smoking, then being around those who do probably isn’t your best choice; if you have given up using or taking drugs then you probably don’t want to hang out with those who are doing than sort of thing. Think of those things that would be temptations for you and then think of your safe place. Think of your escape route. Think of what you will say and do when these temptations will arise. Put these plans into your Child of God Playbook😊

With a game plan, a playbook, and a firm commitment to execute your role, you will find that temptation has less control over you. You will have already made the decision of how you will react and what you will do. You won’t need to decide every time you are confronted with temptation.”





Pages from the Playbook
“I asked a few of the Brethren to recommend plays you might include in your playbook. Here are some of their inspired suggestions:
Pray every day for greater light and a testimony of Jesus Christ.
Listen carefully to the teachings of your parents, your children – and other family members, your bishop, and stake leaders, and the living prophet.
Avoid pornography and immoral social media content.

Also be careful of the time consumption of the games you play on your electronics – they can be addictive and very time consuming. Make sure that you give the Lord, you’re your family and other obligations more of your time than you give to the games😊 it’s so easy to waste your precious time on these games. Sad to say but I am a witness to this

Remember the promises you have made to God, and work to keep them.
Study scripture stories of great prophets and emulate their good qualities.
Bless Heavenly Father’s children through service.
Seek good friends to help you become the person you want to be.
Become an expert in the FamilySearch app, and research your own family history.
Plan places of retreat where you can escape evil influences.
Love and help strengthen other members of your priesthood quorum. Your family, your neighborhood, your community, all those around you.

“I also communicated with the athletes whose pictures we viewed earlier. I found it interesting that they do not identify themselves only by what they do, as professional athletes, but also by who they are, as sons of a loving Heavenly Father and holders of the priesthood of God.”


We should each identify ourselves as a child of God. As a child of God, I have underlined those parts of these players thoughts that could apply to each one of us. Please read through them and see if you don’t agree with me😊


Jimmer Fredette, says: “I have learned to lean heavily on my knowledge and faith of the truthfulness of the gospel. This has guided me to be … a worthy priesthood holder and above all—a positive example.”

Bryce Harper, writes: “I thought fame, fortune, and an MVP award would make me happy. Something was missing. So, I … prepared and [entered] the temple. I am now on a path to [return] to my Heavenly Father and have an eternal family—which is the greatest joy in the world!”

Daniel Sorensen, says: “A good playbook is a plan that uses the talents and strengths of each team member. … As I study and practice the teachings of the gospel of Jesus Christ, I can know how to use my strengths to serve in the priesthood.” And to serve those around us in our families, our neighborhoods, and our communities,


Jeremy Guthrie, shared: “As a 12-year-old deacon … [I felt] the Spirit testify to me [that] ‘this life is the time … to prepare to meet God.’2 The game plan is faith in God unto action [and] repentance through the Savior. … The playbook is found in the holy scriptures and through living prophets.”

Jabari Parker, says: “I couldn’t imagine the person that I would’ve turned out to be if I hadn’t made the decision to be baptized. … I’m so grateful that I have God in my life to guide me every day.”

Ricardo Rojas, said: “Through [God’s] priesthood [we] can help in His work. We are called to ‘be strong and of a good courage’ in defending the truth.” This has helped him succeed both on the pitch and as a priesthood holder.

Taysom Hill, feels the gospel of Jesus Christ has served as a playbook for him in his life. He shared, “Believing in [God’s] plan and doing my best to fulfill my role in it has given me an overwhelming sense of peace and happiness in life, knowing God is pleased with my efforts.”


William Hopoate, says that the gospel helps him “identify the opposition’s strategies and provides the spiritual efficacy to withstand fiery darts and better serve others.”

What about you? Do you recognize your higher and holier identity as a son of God or a daughter of God, a bearer of His holy priesthood or the recipient of His holy priesthood? With this eternal identity in mind, create your game plan and Child of God playbook that will guide you during times of temptation and adversity. Consider both offensive and defensive strategies.

Offensive strategies help strengthen testimonies and increase resolve to stay on the strait and narrow path. Examples include regular prayer, scripture study, church and temple attendance, paying tithing, and following the counsel found in the For the Strength of Youth booklet.  This booklet is a good guide for adults as well as it is for the youth.


Defensive strategies include planning ahead how you will face temptation. When tempted to compromise your personal standards, you know beforehand what you will do.
You need a playbook for that.

Don’t feel like praying today? Time to execute the play you already game-planned.
Do you feel your testimony waning? You have a play for that. You know what to do.
 We are each one of us “All-Stars in God’s Eyes”
You are bearers of the holy priesthood of God. You are a child of a loving Heavenly Father. Your commitment to hold firmly the iron rod will transform you into the eternal being who you were created to become.
God knows and loves you. He will bless you and guide your steps.

You might be thinking that you are no one special, that you are not all-star material. But that is not true. Don’t you know that God has proclaimed, “The weak things of the world shall come forth and break down the mighty and strong ones”?4
So, do you feel weak? insignificant? Congratulations, you just made the lineup!
Do you feel unimportant? inferior? You may be just who God needs.


“What greater example is there than David stepping onto the battlefield against a frightening opponent, Goliath? Relying on the Lord, with a plan, David saved not only himself but the army of Israel! Know that the Lord will be with you as you summon your courage to be on His side. “If God be for us, who can be against us?”
He can open doors and help us find strengths and abilities we never knew we had.

Listen to your trusted coaches, such as your parents, bishop, and other leaders. The living prophet. Learn the playbook. Read the scriptures. Study the words of modern-day prophets. Create your own game plan of how you will prove yourself as a disciple of Christ.
Know in advance the plays you will employ to strengthen your spirit and avoid the snares of the adversary.

Do this and God will surely utilize you.
Now, there may be some who detach themselves from the gospel and wander away. Others may sit in the stands and watch the game from afar. Some may choose to stay on the bench, even though the coach has tried to send them in. I invite you to rescue, support, and love them as a fellow team member!



Others want to get in the game—and do. What matters most is not how talented they are but their willingness to put themselves on the field. They do not wait to have their number called, because they know the scripture that says, “If ye have desires to serve God ye are called to the work.”
You can put yourself in the lineup.
You do this as you study and execute your Child of God playbook.

“Along the way you will most likely stumble and fall—perhaps many, many times. You are not perfect; falling is part of the qualifying process that allows you to refine your character and serve in a more compassionate way. The Savior and His infinite Atonement provide the way to overcome our mistakes through sincere repentance.”

“Great athletes spend hundreds of hours perfecting one small aspect of their game. As a Child of God, you need the same mind-set. If you fail, repent and learn from it. Practice so you will do better the next time. Ultimately, it’s up to you. Will you learn the playbook?”




“I urge you: Trust in the Lord. Put on the whole armor of God and get in the game.
There aren’t many who play professional sports at the highest levels, but when it comes to discipleship, there are many who choose to follow Christ.
In fact, that is your mission in this life—to learn the ways of the Lord, enter the path of discipleship, and strive to live according to God’s plan. God will uphold and bless you as you turn to Him. You can do this because you are an all-star in His eyes.”

Wow! There is a lot of information in this talk that can be applied to each one of us isn’t there? So how about a challenge here? Are you all with me, can we each develop or create our own Child of God Playbook? Can you use some of this information to help you get a good start or at least give you some food ideas to put into your playbook? You can create one for yourself individually and or foe and with your family as well😊 “Create your own playbook of how you will prove yourself as a disciple of Christ.”

Well, here we are again my Dear Family and Friends at the end of this post and this talk. I hope and pray that something that I have said or shared has uplifted you in some small way and maybe brought a smile to your face a time or two in the reading if it. Remember who you are and who loves you no matter what!! He is always there for you no matter what!! Don’t ever let anyone try to convince you otherwise😊
Remember to study your playbook and know the plays so that you are in a position to make your moves as though by second nature whenever the temptations come your way – and they will – so please be prepared for them before they happen!! And as always, have a spectacular week. And until my next post, please make it a great week! Keep on studying the New Testament with me and keep praying. Hold onto the iron rod and stay close to God😊